Guide to where to go on a first date in London

Guide to where to go on a first date in London

Planning a first date can be nerve-wracking – you want to make a great impression but without coming on too strong. Whether you met them on a dating app or you’ve been checking them out on Instagram and finally slid into their DMs, you can show them a good time thanks to the variety of activities and first-date restaurants London has to offer. From cosy drinks and meals to cultural activities, you can find something to do whatever your interests are. This is our guide to where to go on a first date in London.

In this guide
  1. First date-friendly restaurants
    1. The Port House – Intimate tapas spot
    2. Jolene – Hip seasonal menus
    3. Hush – Elegant date destination
    4. Berberè – Social Italian pizza
    5. Campania & Jones – Rustic Italian cooking
  2. Explore nature together
    1. Barbican Conservatory – London's own rainforest
    2. Sky Garden – Lush plants and fab views
    3. Hampstead Heath – Acres to explore
  3. Cultural and creative dates
    1. Estorick Collection – Charming modern art gallery
    2. Skandihus – Get creative with clay
    3. Camden Art Centre – Discover contemporary art
  4. Energetic activities
    1. ClueQuest – Test your puzzle-solving skills
    2. Plonk – Crazy golf games
    3. GoBoat – Discover the city from the water
  5. Date-friendly drinks
    1. The Holly Bush – Cosy up in a traditional pub
    2. PocketSquare – East London roof bar
    3. Draughts – Drinks and games
    4. Swift – Two top bars in one
    5. Social24 – Cocktails with city views
    6. Discount Suit Company – Hidden basement cocktail bar
  6. Coffee shop dates
    1. Allpress Espresso – Indulge in artisan coffee
    2. Vagabond N7 – Top coffee shop in Holloway
    3. Apple Butter Café – Vibrant colours and flavours
    4. F. Mondays – Coffee with personality
    5. Juliets Quality Foods – Much-loved Tooting café
    6. Willows – Compatibility check
  7. Unique date experiences
    1. Dopamine Land – Release your inner child
    2. Up at The O2 – A thrillseeker's ideal date
    3. London Eye – Breathtaking views

First date-friendly restaurants

The Port House

Intimate tapas spot

With a cosy candlelit atmosphere and food made for sharing, The Port House is an ideal venue for a first date. Low lighting and wood panels give the place an intimate feel and the menu includes bites to satisfy every taste. Port and wine from Spain and Portugal are also available here.

Jolene

Hip seasonal menus

The minimalist candlelit Jolene is comfy and relaxed, and has quickly become a local favourite. The seasonal menu changes every day so there are always fresh tastes to discover. Order a few small plates to share between you like risotto or salad niçoise.

Hush

Elegant date destination

For a refined first date meal, Hush in Mayfair is a top choice. Hidden away from the busy streets, there’s a classic interior and an elegant floral-laden terrace that’s sure to impress your date. On the menu you’ll find sophisticated European dishes like risotto, grilled lobster, and slow-roasted lamb shank.

Berberè Clapham – Where to go on a first date
Berberè Clapham
Berberè Clapham – Where to go on a first date
Berberè Clapham
Berberè Clapham – Where to go on a first date
Berberè Clapham
Berberè Clapham – Where to go on a first date
Berberè Clapham
Berberè Clapham – Where to go on a first date
Berberè Clapham
Berberè Clapham – Where to go on a first date
Berberè Clapham
Berberè Clapham – Where to go on a first date
Berberè Clapham
Berberè Clapham – Where to go on a first date
Berberè Clapham

Social Italian pizza

Authentic pizzeria Berberè has locations in Italy as well as London. This is award-winning sourdough pizza served in comfortable restaurants. Each pizza is cut into eight slices to encourage sociable dining - grab a couple to share with your date. Toppings range from classic margherita to four cheese with mushrooms and truffle.

Campania & Jones

Rustic Italian cooking

The warm and rustic setting of Campania & Jones is ideal for a dinner date. This is a Southern Italian restaurant serving generous portions of authentic food. There’s an à la carte menu plus a monthly-changing set option. Antipasti, pasta, and meat and fish are served, as well as curated Southern Italian wines.

Explore nature together

Barbican Conservatory

London's own rainforest

Enjoy a peaceful walk together in any weather at the Barbican Conservatory. Open on selected days, you can explore 1,500 species of plants and trees from all over the world. Orchids and cacti are amongst the plants you’ll see here. There are also three pools with carp, koi, and terrapins.

Sky Garden

Lush plants and fab views

Sky Garden offers plenty of options for a first date. Take in fabulous views of the city surrounded by plants at the city’s highest indoor garden. Sometimes there’s live music too. Bars and restaurants are on-site if things are going well and you want to settle down for a bit longer.

Hampstead Heath – Where to go on a first date
Hampstead Heath
Hampstead Heath – Where to go on a first date
Hampstead Heath
Hampstead Heath – Where to go on a first date
Hampstead Heath
Hampstead Heath – Where to go on a first date
Hampstead Heath
Hampstead Heath – Where to go on a first date
Hampstead Heath
Hampstead Heath – Where to go on a first date
Hampstead Heath
Hampstead Heath – Where to go on a first date
Hampstead Heath
Hampstead Heath – Where to go on a first date
Hampstead Heath

Hampstead Heath

Acres to explore

Hampstead Heath is a great place for a long stroll whilst you get to know each other. Covering 800 acres of land in North London, there are spots with fab city views, ponds full of wildlife, and lots of open space. Stop on a bench along your walk to admire the sights.

Cultural and creative dates

Estorick Collection of Modern Italian Art – Where to go on a first date
Estorick Collection of Modern Italian Art
Estorick Collection of Modern Italian Art – Where to go on a first date
Estorick Collection of Modern Italian Art
Estorick Collection of Modern Italian Art – Where to go on a first date
Estorick Collection of Modern Italian Art
Estorick Collection of Modern Italian Art – Where to go on a first date
Estorick Collection of Modern Italian Art
Estorick Collection of Modern Italian Art – Where to go on a first date
Estorick Collection of Modern Italian Art
Estorick Collection of Modern Italian Art – Where to go on a first date
Estorick Collection of Modern Italian Art
Estorick Collection of Modern Italian Art – Where to go on a first date
Estorick Collection of Modern Italian Art
Estorick Collection of Modern Italian Art – Where to go on a first date
Estorick Collection of Modern Italian Art

Estorick Collection

Charming modern art gallery

If your date is an art lover, take them to Estorick Collection in Islington. Set in an attractive townhouse, you’ll find three floors of 20th century Italian art, focusing on Futurism in particular. After you’ve seen the work you can stop at the café for Italian coffee and food.

Get creative with clay

If you fancy trying a creative activity together, head to a sought-after pottery class at Skandihus. Public and private sessions are available for adults. A taster day session is ideal for beginners as a first date. If you're more experienced you can join one of the drop-in sessions to work without guidance.

Camden Art Centre

Discover contemporary art

Whether you're a visual art expert or you don't have a clue, you can enjoy discovering contemporary art at Camden Art Centre. Housed in a historic building that was originally a library, the centre has exhibition spaces, a café, bookshop, and a secluded garden. There's a busy programme of exhibitions, events, and activities.

Energetic activities

ClueQuest

Test your puzzle-solving skills

For an action-packed date, take on an escape room at ClueQuest. A variety of games are available and they’re suitable for two people, as well as groups of up to six. There are puzzles and challenges for every age and ability, as well as three different immersive VR games.

Crazy golf games

Play nine holes of crazy golf at one of Plonk’s courses. These fun and tricky games are sure to break the ice. Afterwards you can head to the bar to get cosy with a drink and a board game, or you can check out the arcade games and carry on getting competitive.

Discover the city from the water

Experience London in a new light with boat hire from GoBoat London. These little grey vessels are self-drive electric boats and you don't need any experience. There's a choice of three routes to explore, including seasonal options. Make it even more enjoyable by bringing a picnic along for the journey.

Date-friendly drinks

The Holly Bush

Cosy up in a traditional pub

The Holly Bush in Hampstead dates back to the 18th century. The traditional wood-panelled venue gives the feel of a country pub. There are plenty of corners to nestle into with a drink. The choices at the bar include something for everyone and upscale pub food is served too.

PocketSquare Skyline Bar & Terrace – Where to go on a first date
PocketSquare Skyline Bar & Terrace
PocketSquare Skyline Bar & Terrace – Where to go on a first date
PocketSquare Skyline Bar & Terrace
PocketSquare Skyline Bar & Terrace – Where to go on a first date
PocketSquare Skyline Bar & Terrace
PocketSquare Skyline Bar & Terrace – Where to go on a first date
PocketSquare Skyline Bar & Terrace
PocketSquare Skyline Bar & Terrace – Where to go on a first date
PocketSquare Skyline Bar & Terrace
PocketSquare Skyline Bar & Terrace – Where to go on a first date
PocketSquare Skyline Bar & Terrace
PocketSquare Skyline Bar & Terrace – Where to go on a first date
PocketSquare Skyline Bar & Terrace
PocketSquare Skyline Bar & Terrace – Where to go on a first date
PocketSquare Skyline Bar & Terrace
PocketSquare Skyline Bar & Terrace – Where to go on a first date
PocketSquare Skyline Bar & Terrace
PocketSquare Skyline Bar & Terrace – Where to go on a first date
PocketSquare Skyline Bar & Terrace

PocketSquare

East London roof bar

If you want to impress with a stylish bar, PocketSquare is a great option. This Whitechapel sky bar offers panoramic views and has a vibrant and cool atmosphere. At this modern bar you can try well-presented food and drinks, including elaborate signature cocktails. Elevated nibbles like a sashimi mosaic are available too.

Drinks and games

Get comfy with a drink and a board game at Draughts. These bars are reinventing board games for modern times, with a lively and competitive atmosphere. Take your pick from the thousands of games on offer. You can enjoy drinks from beer to cocktails, plus burgers and tacos if you’re hungry.

Swift

Two top bars in one

At Swift Soho you’re not restricted to just one bar – you have the choice of two under one roof. Upstairs there’s an award-winning modern cocktail bar with a big selection of alcoholic and non-alcoholic mixes. There are over 300 whiskies too. Downstairs there’s an intimate drinking den with live music performances.

Social24

Cocktails with city views

A venture from top chef Jason Atherton, Social24 gives you great views from its 24th floor location. There are creative options for cocktail drinkers, plus small and large plates of upscale pub food if you’re hungry. The sleek and modern venue is sure to make the right first impression.

Discount Suit Company

Hidden basement cocktail bar

To let your date in on a well-kept secret, take them to Discount Suit Company. Disguised as an old warehouse, this is a cosy secret basement bar serving inspiring cocktails. There’s a soundtrack of northern soul and vintage rock ‘n’ roll in this low-ceilinged space with smart wood panelling.

Coffee shop dates

Indulge in artisan coffee

If you love nothing more than a hot and fresh cup of coffee, check out Allpress. This roastery supplies a great number of cafés but also has its own sites in East London. These modern spots serve espresso drinks and filter coffee, with understated outdoor seating available. Light food is served too.

Vagabond N7

Top coffee shop in Holloway

Holloway Road's Vagabond N7 is a popular local café. Making use of reclaimed materials and secondhand items, the venue has a homey and eclectic feel. There are indoor seats plus a peaceful walled garden where you can easily chat with your date over a drink. There's a changing food menu too.

Apple Butter Café

Vibrant colours and flavours

For casual café bites, Apple Butter Café is a top choice. This vibrant eatery is packed with bursts of colour and an apple tree growing right inside the space. There are outdoor seats too. Pop in for a coffee or tea or try the Middle Eastern-inspired food options like sandwiches and salads.

Coffee with personality

F. Mondays has loads of personality and not just in its cheeky name. You'll see lush green plants and laidback outdoor spaces. Come in for a coffee to soak up the atmosphere. You can also buy deli products here like bread, cheeses, meat, dairy, cupboard essentials, and of course, coffee and tea.

Juliets Quality Foods

Much-loved Tooting café

With weathered flooring and exposed brick, Juliets Quality Foods has a pretty typical coffee shop look. The focus is really on the menu, which has imaginative dishes that have made this place a favourite in Tooting. Chat with your date over a coffee or try snacks like house-made cornbread.

Willows

Compatibility check

This simple, unpretentious eatery is inspired by Scandi smorgasbord, letting you build your own board of deliciousness, whether its brunch items throughout the day or cheese and charcuterie in the evening. Is your potential partner a spicy chorizo or a saucy saucisson? Will you have to spend the rest of your life fighting bitterly over the last scrap of cheddar, or are they more of a Baron Bigod? Negotiate and share your way through the menu, add some cocktails, and see what happens.

Unique date experiences

Dopamine Land

Release your inner child

A museum unlike any other, Dopamine Land is a carefully-designed multi-sensory experience. This interactive and immersive venue is intended to boost your mood and release your inner child. There are several rooms to enjoy featuring digital forests, mirror mazes, and pillow fights. The whole thing takes 30-50 minutes to fully explore.

Up at The O2

A thrillseeker's ideal date

For a unique first date, climb up The O2 with Up at The O2. Daytime, sunset, and twilight climbs are available, and you can arrange a glass of champagne at the top to make it more memorable. You’ll get excellent views of Greenwich, Canary Wharf, and the Olympic Park with this thrilling activity.

London Eye

Breathtaking views

View the sights of London in a unique and impressive way on the London Eye. Millions of visitors head to this observation wheel on the South Bank every year. The transparent pods give you uninterrupted views and the experience lasts about half an hour. Book a private pod to make it even more special.

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